Sex during Pregnancy: a Complete and Respectful Guidance

19 December 2023

Sexuality is an important part of many people’s lives, and pregnancy represents a period of significant changes in a woman’s life. Questions and concerns often arise about sex during pregnancy. Is it safe? What are the benefits and precautions to take?

In this article, we will explore sex during pregnancy in a comprehensive and respectful way, offering useful information for couples expecting a baby.

1) Safety of sexual intercourse during pregnancy

Sex during pregnancy is generally safe for most women. The protective nature of the mother’s body, with thicker cervical mucus and a mucous plug closing the cervix, makes it very difficult for bacteria or germs to enter the uterus.

There are, however, some important exceptions. If you have had health problems or complications during pregnancy, always consult your doctor before engaging in any sexual activity. Situations in which sex should be avoided include:

  • History of recurrent miscarriages
  • Severe placenta-related problems (such as a very low placental insertion covering the cervix)
  • Unexplained vaginal bleeding
  • Intense abdominal pain
  • Early or suspected uterine contractions

In these cases, your doctor may advise you to abstain from sexual intercourse to ensure your and your baby’s safety.

2) Benefits

Sex during pregnancy can have several benefits:

  • Improved intimacy: For many couples, pregnancy represents a time of deeper connection and sharing unique experiences. Sex can strengthen intimacy between partners.
  • Stress relief: Pregnancy can be stressful, and sex can help reduce stress and promote relaxation.
  • Mood boosting: Hormones released during sex, such as oxytocin and endorphins, can help improve mood.
  • Light exercise: Sex can represent moderate exercise, which helps to maintain good physical fitness.

3) Precautions and tips for sex during pregnancy

While sex during pregnancy is often safe and beneficial, it is important to keep a few precautions in mind:

  • Comfortable positions: as your pregnancy progresses, you may have to adapt your sexual positions to ensure maximum comfort and safety. A side lying position is often well tolerated.
  • Use safe lubricants: during pregnancy, you may experience vaginal dryness. The use of water-based lubricants can help make sex more comfortable.
  • Open communication: Talk openly with your partner about how you feel and your needs. Communication is essential to ensure healthy sexuality during pregnancy.

4) After Birth

After childbirth, you may need time to recover. Your body has undergone considerable changes, so it is important to listen to it and respect its own time. If you have had perineal stitches, you will first have to wait for complete closure. Ask a midwife or your doctor for advice on the best time to resume sexual activity. Every woman has different times and it is very important to respect them.

In conclusion, sex during pregnancy is safe for most women and can have significant benefits for the relationship. However, it is important to be careful and consult your midwife or doctor in case of doubts or complications. Open communication with your partner is essential to ensure that you both feel comfortable and respected during this phase of life.

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